Guest Book / 亲朋寄语

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Lisa Wen wrote on 2015-06-21 on pm1:54:
Dear Sonata,
To be honest, I had a lot planned for the summer. I was going to visit you at the hospital, and when you got better we could go out and have Menchie's and Starbucks. I guess I really wasn't expecting something like that to happen.
There is a lot I want to tell you, but the most important of them all is that I am really thankful to have met you, and to have been your friend for the past few, almost six years. It has been so great. I'll always remember the fun times we've had together, going to restaurants, hanging out at your house, and playing with the swings in your backyard.
Thank you so, so much.
Some things become habits, and I think twenty years from now, I'm still going to be looking at stuffed pigs and thinking, "hey, maybe I should get that for Sonata."

With lots of love,
Lisa
Eve Sung & Family wrote on 2015-06-21 on pm12:58:
Dear my friend Sonata,

Life's meaning is not about how long or how short it is. Since the moment we were born, the learning journey begins. We learnt to cry, to eat, to speak, to walk, and then gradually, everyone starts to make their own choices. Some people think that we are the master of our own destinies. I think that destiny has just created challenges for us in life to overcome.
You must be very special because destiny gave you a big challenge to defeat a fatal disease and you demonstrated to us, the strength you had to overcome this hard challenge. The fact that you have already fought so hard, has inspired me so much to keep going, to keep working hard, and to keep learning; I thank you for that.
When I met you and knew about your sickness, I was devastated and my heart ached for you, yet I didn't know how to help you. But then I realized, that even though we don't have as big challenges as you do, we still have many moments of sad or hard experiences in life. So when are all the end of the challenges? I think during the fight you were going through, you were already doing such a good job, and now you can start another level of life's journey.
We only met for a short time, but meeting you will be in my mind forever. I remember going around the mall with you and Vanna, visiting all the stores and laughing, talking and just having so much fun with you. I remember performing at the Richmond Centre Recital with you, and the wonderful music you played for everyone.

Rest in peace Sonata and we wish that your family recovers from this hard period in a short time. You will be forever in our hearts.

Love,

Eve Sung & Family
Julia Cheung wrote on 2015-06-21 on pm12:22:
Dear Sonata,
I want you to know that, out of hundreds of piano students I have taught in these years, you are my dearest. This is something I cannot explain. If I have to say reasons, it would be your happiness, genuine character, your courage and the very smart you

You are so receptive in class, pick up so readily. Most of all, you enjoy your piano playing so much, always moved my heart,. Your music made me cry too.
You are one of the exceptional few I see with musical talents. Really less than a handful.

I am still thinking the good tines we had food together, your menchies. The image will be buried deep in my heart. I long to have the time to go shopping with you too. When I am in white rock next tine, every time, I will certainly think of you. .. and probably go shopping together.

you are always in my heart.

teacher Julia
双庆 / 孔晶 wrote on 2015-06-21 on am11:36:
天使翩然逝
痛煞人间友
音容挥不去
哀思何堪愁
天堂再无痛
人间情满楼
若灵轻抚琴
珮云安息否
Zoe Zheng wrote on 2015-06-21 on am10:49:
Sonata,每当门铃响起,我们都期望站在门外的是你,甜甜的微笑,甜甜的声音,至今挥之不去。每当听到电话铃声,我们都希望看到的是我们所熟悉的号码,7787731892。我们期盼和你能再次偶然的相遇,在Indigo,starbucks,鱼汤米线,甚至在开车的路上。
Sonata,如果有下辈子,我愿意还认识你,还能听到你的一声,阿姨好,还能在我家里看见你天真的微笑和美丽的大眼睛。
Sonata,好好的!
ShuDehua wrote on 2015-06-21 on am9:06:
无可言说的悲哀,痛极无言;无法抑止的思念,心碎血泣。记得,那一年拉着你的长发,轻轻地告诉你要好好坚强,乖乖吃药,好好照顾自己,恍如昨日,谁曾想昨日已成两世,痛彻心扉。
深爱的Sonata,为何你就这样不顾亲人的眷恋转身而去?
我竟无法记得你的爸爸妈妈带着血泪告诉我的点点滴滴,我只能想起每天早上停在你家门口妈妈的车。我曾经那么开心地想,妈妈的车在,屋里那位可爱的天使还在快乐地笑,哪怕偶尔会有医院的车停在那里。
如何才能淡去那深入骨髓的痛楚?如何才能让泪水不再奔淌?如何才能忘记你不再归来的笑靥?
挚爱的Sonata,你怎么舍得这样的决然而去?

我明白,来到凡间的精灵回到了天堂的家;我知道,你会牵挂深爱你的亲人;我相信,病痛绝不再困扰天堂的你。

天人纵相隔,你未曾远离。天堂何幸,可以拥有那么快乐的小精灵。天堂有你,灿若春花。

亲爱的Sonata,感谢有你,永铭于心!
Jeff Liu & Grace Feng wrote on 2015-06-21 on am8:17:
虽然小天使Sonata暂时离开了我们,但她纯洁的灵魂在天上与天父相聚,这是无比美好的,我们感谢赞美主!总有一天,当我们到达天堂,我们还是会与她相聚的。
愿Sonata的亲人坚强,珍惜生活,慰籍她对生活和家的挚爱和期盼。我们永远怀念Sonata。
愿Sonata安息主怀!
师纪平 wrote on 2015-06-21 on am3:24:
眼泪、眼泪,一次次夺框而出,
千言万语……,
天国没有病痛、没有忧伤、没有眼泪。
一路走好,天国再见你花一般的容颜。
我是基督徒,我信主所说的一切应许……。
天国见!小天使!
Michael Huang wrote on 2015-06-21 on am2:45:
宋京 Steven:
我从表妹小群那里得到这个不幸的消息后,简直不刚相信,随之而来的便是不住泪水,这几天来每天都在回忆和Sonata短暂的接触:阳光、美丽、可爱、正直善良、聪明伶俐……太多太多。尽管我们和Sonata仅仅接触过几次,但她给我们的印象太深刻了,每每在朋友中说起我们认识一个小姑娘是如何如何优秀,我们都自豪的不行。得知Sonata患病并顽强的与病痛争斗的事后,更对这位顽强的小姑娘肃然起敬,多么想用自己的力量去帮助她,然而,病魔却夺走了她年轻的生命。本想这次去加拿大还能看望她,可是我们没有等到。
Sonata:你是我们永远的骄傲,一路走好!
Michael Huang
Maria Zhong
小姨孙阡陌 wrote on 2015-06-21 on am1:27:
珮云:
这个世界已经和你告别七天了。
悲伤毫无缓解。
关于你,
我的回忆比我们相处的时间多很多。
我想起1998年的暑假,我还是个小学生。
那时候的你还没有出生。
我在你外婆北京的家里,
用卡带随身听,听着一首美好的歌。
我觉得窗外的树影是那么美。
我虽然看不到未来,
但相信着未来是那么纯良地向我走来。

两年后,
你降临在这个世界上。

当你第一次回到中国。
那个十四岁的我简直惊艳到了。
你太美好了,粉妆玉琢,眉青如黛。
长辈们谈到你的天生丽质,
说是因为表姐在怀孕时走了四个国家,喝了四国的水。
说那些灵气和脱俗都到了你的身上。
他们说你在街上会有人围观你,
用英语跟你说:“若是日后赢得了世界小姐的桂冠,别忘了我哦~”
你回国我们相见的时候,
你和我坐在沙发上看音乐之声,
我低头瞄到你的睫毛,它们弯弯长长,如同深海植被。
你很爱我,我也很爱你。

又过了两年,你大了两岁
又一次回国,
你在我不远处装作看书,但其实你是在看我。
我不确定你还能不能认出我。
不出一会,你和我重新熟络起来。
你给我讲起东京的迪士尼乐园里白雪公主的魔镜,
你向我介绍完魔镜有多神奇之后,对我说:
“我当时就已经想要等再见到你的时候告诉你了。”
珮云,我一直相信着关于你的美好未来。
我也想象着,
当我们都成为大人,
再见面时,
我们会聊些什么~

再后来,我不再年少,
你也一定在持续长高。
我经历了很多事,
明白了不舍与不得。

我没有再见到你,回国来的一直是姑姑和姑父。
我问起过你,看过你的照片。
我不知道你生病,
后来,姑姑说是你不愿意向人们说起。
所以,小姨一无所知。

你是那么美丽,我的小姑娘。
但他们总说起,有人给你算命,说你是天上的花童……
说你本不属于这里……
我问:“是要早离去的意思吗?”
我的姑姑竟然说:“对。”

但是,我的小姑娘,这些说辞本是玄幻不是吗?
真真切切的事情是,你是如此鲜活娇嫩,你才不满十五岁。
你就在我们的生活里,在我们的牵挂中,真实地住了十五年。
我们要等待你变成少女,
等你寻找到你最爱的人和事,
我们要等你成为一个年轻的女子,
看看旁人如何爱慕你。

但我竟然听到的是你离去的消息。
七天了,只要控制自己不要思考这件事,
似乎就能欺骗自己你一直在大洋彼岸好好地生活着……
而真相是,
从2008年到你离开前,
你竟然一直是在和疾病的抗争中渡过。
难以想象我的姐姐、姐夫、姑姑、姑父为这不幸曾经如何操劳过……
现在,又是何等心碎呢?

人们那么珍惜,还是要失去你……
你竟然永远不会衰老。
你竟然永远停在十五岁,
这是刚刚懂得生活的爱与美好的年龄。

我先来,你后到。
我仅仅是刚刚开始担心青春不再,
你的死亡却早于你的老。
你是一个要教会我们无常是什么的花童,
注定要回到那鲜花遍地的地方。

只是我的小姑娘,
有些事,我好想告诉你,
我当时就想等到再见到你的时候……告诉你了。
……
再也不行了……
谷怡雯 wrote on 2015-06-21 on am12:25:
Sonata我的好妹妹:
Sonata给我印象最深的事情是:每次我们和她用中文讲话,她都用带着京腔的中文对答。这乡音让人听着倍感亲切。
在人生中所经历的一切事情上,她都做的比我好多了。她在我心里一直是个榜样一般的存在。每次见到她都那么坚强,像没事的样子。我想说的就是只要有希望,有念头,就可以战胜一切。
我喜欢美丽的故事,也喜欢每一个故事的happy ending。我希望她只是穿越到了另一个世界,重新开始另一段快乐人生。
Sonata是个幸福的女孩,因为她得到了父母和姥姥姥爷全部的爱。我相信只要我们一直把她放在心里,她就一直在我们身边。即使她离开了。 我想她会很欣慰。【这人间天下都是重聚的日子,再难再苦,总有再见的日子。】
It's been a long day without you, my friend
And I'll tell you all about it when I see you again
We've come a long way from where we began
Oh, I'll tell you all about it when I see you again
When I see you again
May Zheng wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm11:50:
我见过你……

我见过你,
在书店、办公室、医院里、在你爸爸的手机里……
我记得你,
清澈水灵的大眼,
洁白无瑕的脸颊。

我知道,
你爸爸妈妈是多么的爱你,
为你他们操碎了心,
恨不得替你承担你的病痛,
为你他们可以放弃一切。

我也知道,
你是那么的聪明懂事,
你的功课是那么的优异,
你的作文和才艺又是那么的高超;
你是那么地令你父母骄傲与欣慰;
可是,
你却这么快地走了,
来不及高中毕业、上大学,
更还没谈恋爱、结婚、生子……
还有那么多的事,
还没来得及和你父母亲戚朋友分享。

我也知道,
你不舍,
你父母外公外婆更不舍……
你的离去将是他们一生的痛!
愿你在天堂没有病痛与忧愁,
也愿你在天堂看顾爱你的亲人!

郑玫
2015/06/20
孔蕊 wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm9:52:
亲爱的Sonata宝贝,

从你两岁的时候在Central Park的Playground 认识了你,你就是阿姨心中最美丽的小姑娘。后来你和Vanna成了好友,你俩的友谊也成就了我们两家人的友谊。知道你身体不好,可我们从未想过你会离开,总觉得你会好起来,只是需要时间。

忘不了你和Vanna通话时清脆的声音,你俩欢笑着,无话不谈,即使她关起门来和你聊天,我都能感受到你的开心和无忧无虑,我总是说,听Sonata讲话,根本想不到你会身体有恙,我们从来都坚信你会好起来。

可你却是这么乖巧听话的孩子,你不想再给你的爸爸妈妈爷爷姥姥增加担忧和烦恼,所以你选择先走一步,可是你要知道你的离开让他们多么心痛。你是那么乐观坚强,阿姨去医院看望你那么多次,都从未见你哭过一次,你总是笑盈盈的和我打招呼,让我忘却了你还在病痛中。每次看到你欣赏我为你准备的饭菜,我都感到那么有成就感,我多希望你每次能多吃一些,把身体养好养壮,可事与愿违,你很多东西都不能吃。为了尽快好起来,你尽量配合医院的治疗,控制自己的食欲,可要知道,你还是个孩子,能这样做得需要多大的毅力!你的乐观坚强,让我们都为之动容!

天堂没有痛苦和忧愁,你的爸爸妈妈爷爷姥姥对你的爱会永远陪伴着你!你的朋友对你的牵挂也永远让你不会孤独寂寞,你就在我们身边的微笑的看顾着我们。孩子,你是天使,你永远在人间!

孔蕊阿姨
K. Fleming wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm9:39:
Sonata volunteered in the library during elementary school. Sonata was always curious, always full of energy, and full of opinions. Her voice would fill the hall and her laughter would fill a room. She had ideas and dreams that propelled her. She had a way of keeping the other student volunteers and I laughing. She started an ice cream fundraiser that benefitted our school library called "I Scream for Ice Cream." We still 'scream for ice cream' thanks to Sonata.
I really loved watching the love evident between Sonata and her mom because they enjoyed being with each other. I am so grateful that her journey intersected with mine for the time that it did. She was a treasure and her passing is a loss to all of us.
Sharon Long wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm8:39:
噩梦一般的七天,想到她就心痛地流泪。

还记得07年元旦我们两家相约一同去Vegas玩儿的情景。那是我们第一次见到她,这个美丽随和的小姑娘特别叫人喜欢,我们一起吃饭,看魔术表演,夜游长街,欢乐的场面历历在目。

作为高中时形影不离的密友,多年来我们远隔千里,交谈的中心也是孩子。Sonata学习努力,钢琴优秀,还常常和妈妈聊知心话…她是这样的一个聪明美丽的天使,叫人无法忘怀。

豆豆,Steven,叔叔,阿姨,我们的心和你们在一起。你们是一个充满爱的家庭,六年来在帮助Sonata与疾病抗争的过程中付出了全部的努力。孩子在天堂不会再有疾病的痛苦和折磨,她为我们留下的都是幸福的记忆。伊人已去,生者节哀,请你们一定多加保重!

晓霞,加栋
孙维 wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm7:54:
心疼的感觉!一直不相信这是真的!没想到几年前的见面竟然是诀别 后悔当初没能多陪孩子玩玩儿 失去亲人的苦和痛不是用言语可以表达的!在这里深表惋惜和痛心 孩子走了 带着微笑走了!抛下人世间的苦痛去一个快乐美丽的地方!我们这些爱她的人深深的祝福她 在天堂里天天快乐永远幸福!豆姐 姐夫你们节哀顺变吧!珮珮在天国里也希望你们健康的走下去好好的活着为了孩子 为了老去的父母 为了爱你们的人和你们爱着的人!真心祝福珮珮 在天国里快乐美丽幸福!大姑姑 大姑父 豆姐 姐夫多保重身体!我会去看你们的 !
Rainer Li wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm6:27:
宋京、Steven:

自6月16日早晨起来,在厨房中看到小群一人在哭泣,我获知了我们的sonata离开了我们,我的心就和小群一样,去到了你们哪里。时至今日,我仍无法抑制自己的悲伤。我一直都觉得Sonata没有离开我们,满脑子都是她的音容笑貌,满耳都是她嗲嗲的声音。往日她对我说过的话,一句一句的在耳畔响起。

Sunnie至今还不知道这个消息。16日早晨她看到妈妈爸爸在哭,便问发生了什么。小群只说没有发生什么。在上学的路上,她又问我:爸爸,到底怎么了?我对她说sonata的情况不太好。她问我:是在治疗还是在抢救? 我说在抢救。她便彻底地沉默了。从那天到现在,我们三人在一起的时候,再没有谈起过sonata。我觉得李沐阳阳内心已然不安,一直在回避着。我们一直在犹豫着该何时告诉Sunnie,她的最好的朋友和姐姐已经离开了她。

离恨恰似春草,渐行渐远更生。这个可爱的小女孩自走进我们的心,便永远地塞满了我们的心的每一个角落,更不曾离开过。我知道这会是爸爸妈妈一生的心痛,直到你们自己离开这个世界的时候。这是生而为人的苦难,无法逃遁。

我该劝慰你们,可我不知道该如何劝慰。唯有希望你们保重。照顾好阿姨叔叔,照顾好你们自己。Sonata还没有离开,她在看着你们。让孩子走的安心些,愿她下一生健健康康地活着。

雨生泣书
王彤 wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm4:32:
一个天使带走了我们无限的希望,爱。留给了我们无限的思念和悲伤。但是你让我们成为父母,你给了我们更多的爱和快乐的记忆。可爱的孩子,我们会珍惜着你给的一切,你也要在天国快乐的生活啊。谢谢你。。。
姚倩琨 wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm3:48:
生如夏花之绚烂 天使人间留不住

我不忍摘花,是不愿看生命调零。这几天情绪低落,疏于看微信,晚上猛一看到朋友发的微信,告诉我她十五岁的女儿周曰因病离世,我傻了一样狠揉了眼睛,以为自己看错。这怎么可能,就在5月中我刚回时,她还和她妈妈一起来看我,那双美丽如星的大眼晴目不转睛的看着我,那么干净无暇,花一样美的年华,还没怒放就调零,我接受不了这样的无常。

人世间最大的痛是丧子之痛,朋友哭着告诉我,孩子不想走,最后说不出话是流着泪和她永别,朋友自责自己,没能帮到女儿,救回女儿,我一句话也说不出只有流泪,我想告诉朋友,孩子的泪不仅仅是对生的留恋,还有不舍的是对妈妈,她知道妈妈没有她的日子是生不如死。人的生命是何等脆弱,没有重来,妈妈再爱孩子,在病魔面前,也只能眼睁睁的无能为力,留不住最爱的骨肉。纵然用全世界的财富都换不回孩子再叫一声妈妈。

我的眼里全是孩子笑盈盈的脸,这么多年常常在想,上帝在天上什么都能看见,为什么会允许这样痛彻心扉的不幸发生,让这么漂亮聪慧的孩子受尽折磨离去,留下妈妈在万劫不复的深渊。

我知道我没有权利这样责备上帝,唯有祈求,孩子能在天国健康无痛,父母才能略有安慰,希望所有的悲伤都会被神看见,唯愿苦难换成恩赐让生者坚强。
Lisa Ordeman wrote on 2015-06-20 on pm3:46:
I was Sonata's grade 7 teacher, and that year was what I think will always remain my best year of teaching. Sonata inspired me to be a better teacher, and she inspired her peers to work harder and be kinder. Sonata was an amazing writer. It was because of Sonata that I decided to teach some Shakespeare that year. Sonata wrote her thoughts about Shakespeare in grade 7 more eloquently then most adults could. Sonata was also an amazing artist. I remember going to an art show with her where one of her pieces was featured. Sonata loved reading and The Fault in Our Stars was one of her favourite books. Any new John Green book will forever remind me if Sonata. At our school, HT Thrift, Sonata was responsible for many find raising initiatives. She hosted an ice cream sale to raise money for books that still happened this year. We will keep that going in Sonata's memory. After her grade 7 year Sonata and would meet for coffee sometimes and talk about books and life. I was so lucky to have had Sonata in my life. What a truly exceptional young lady. Much love to Sonata and her family.